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Stop all the clocks: Remembering Alexis Tioseco

Ria Limjap | Published: Sep 3, 2009 - 6:05pm



  

The couple during happier times. Image by Chris Yambing.
The couple during happier times. Photo by Christian Yambing.


It's so awful, and such a huge loss. Here were two young and talented people who had bright futures ahead of them. Alexis could have lived in Vancouver with the rest of his family but he chose to stay here and make his contribution to a community and industry that needs all the support it can get. He was passionate about Filipino film and championed it.

On the day Alexis Tioseco died, his friend Erwin Romulo was sitting in my apartment to use the internet. As I leafed through the 101st commemorative issue of the Philippine Free Press (Alexis wrote for them), we discussed the appearance of Alexis on the program "Media in Focus" along with Butch Dalisay and Carlo J. Caparas where they discuss the National Artist Awards controversy. I remarked on how cool, eloquent, and unfailingly polite Alexis appeared sitting next to Caparas. Erwin said "Pero yung mga sinabi niya may nilalaman di ba?"


Despite the grief of his family, friends, colleagues, and students he leaves behind a significant legacy that cannot be ignored. He stuck to his guns. He knew his shit. He did it out of love. Alexis Tioseco wrote Wishful Thinking for Philippine Cinema on his blog and ended with this:

"I wish less filmmakers compromised.
I wish more filmmakers admitted when they did.
I wish we focused our attention more on audience education, development and literacy, than on dumbing down films to pander to them.
I wish Philippine cinema all the success in the world.
. ."

  

I wish the same thing. And I wish we didn't have to say goodbye to this brave and brilliant voice so soon.

  

Photos by Christian Yambing.

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  • Pinoyrocks May 22 2010 @ 12:15pm Report Abuse
    So what's the update on this case?
  • Gang Badoy Oct 12 2009 @ 05:31am Report Abuse
    It's been over 40 days and I finally found the courage to google Alexis. Thank you for writing this, Ria.

    -Gang
  • well. Sep 06 2009 @ 04:02am Report Abuse
    yeah but the rogue EIC's letter was full of lies. he didn't know alexis at all. ria did. erwin did.

    alexis never wrote for them after he left.

    not even lav diaz could write a eulogy because he knew alexis.

    he never did.
  • Marco Sep 04 2009 @ 07:07am Report Abuse
    A couple dies violently in their own home and what do people comment about... the writing. Now that, too, is tragic.
  • geekcritic Sep 04 2009 @ 03:00am Report Abuse
    I agree with Vomit. It's a very early article. The tribute by Rogue's EIC is better.

    Maybe Ria should have waited for the funeral.
  • MSDIAZ Sep 04 2009 @ 01:00am Report Abuse
    You will be missed so much Alexis. Thank you for your gift of self. You will always be in our prayers.
  • vomit Sep 03 2009 @ 11:27pm Report Abuse
    I actually didn't want to bring this up, and I actually like Ms. Ria's reviews, but this isn't a very good article. Mr. Tioseco deserves a better tribute. Then again, maybe it's still too early for an elaborate article. I'm sure everyone who personally knows this young man is still in shock and still hurting from this very tragic incident.

    Condolences, my dear.
  • geekcritic Sep 03 2009 @ 07:16pm Report Abuse
    (I hate to be an ass, but this article proves that Ms. Ria can write. This sounds rushed though, but I understand. I think she tried hard to control herself from breaking down crying while writing this one.

    So haters: shut up.

    And hey, I'm not Ria. My username tells me who I am. Google google.)

    Now is the time for each one of us to stand up for Philippine cinema, the way sir Alexis did. This way his flame will remain burning.

    Condolences uli.
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