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Profiling James Yap: 10 Things to Help Us Decipher His "Strong But Silent" Ways

Published: Jul 19, 2010 - 9:00am

In 2008, James Yap figured in a scuffle with Talk 'N Text player Terence Leather, an import whose temper had blown up during a game.

 

6. He's got an impish side. In 2008, Yap paid a P50,000 fine for kicking Talk 'N Text player Terence Leather, an import who had blown up during a game with Yap's Purefoods Tender Juicy Giants. Yap had kicked Leather from behind, supposedly to keep him from hurting Yap's fellow player. In an interview following the incident, Yap was remorseful but some sports fans alleged that he had a naughty smile as Leather chased him on the hardcourt.

 

7. He can compartmentalize. Psychologists say that men can usually compartmentalize their relationships. Yap is a typical male as he is able to block out his personal worries or heartaches and keep doing his job. Last June 23, ABS-CBNNews.com reported that "despite having very publicized marital problems with his wife Kris Aquino, James Yap led his basketball team B-Meg Derby Ace to a 101-83 win over Barangay Ginebra." Perhaps, it's also because basketball is more logical than his personal life right now.

 

8. He's in the "intimacy versus isolation" stage. At age 28, Yap, according to psychologist Erik Ericson's stages of human development, is at that point in his life where he is looking for "mutually satisfying relationships, primarily through marriage and friends." If he can "negotitate this stage successfully," he will gain emotional maturity and be able to "experience intimacy on a deep level." If he fails to resolve his issues at this stage, he'll most likely continue to feel "emotionally isolated" even when he's with a partner.

 

9. He's a Rooster. Born in 1982, Yap is classified as a Metal Rooster, who, according to the Chinese Horoscope, are known as "reasonable people who seem to analyze every decision they make and every situation they find themselves in." They can also be "standoffish at times and can let their aggression get in the way of a blossoming friendship or romance." Kris Aquino, born on February 14, 1971, is a Metal Dog. According to the compatability analysis, the Rooster and the Dog will   have an obstacle-ridden relationship but that their union can stay solid if they make a solid commitment to each other.

 

10. He's a "Mechanic." Among the 16 personality types classified in the Myers Briggs personality test, Yap would most likely be a "Mechanic." This means that he is a "risk-taker who lives for the moment." Mechanics are also talented in sports, "uncomplicated in their desires," as well as "loyal to their peers and to their internal value systems." But "they're not overly concerned with respecting laws and rules if they get in the way of getting something done." Thus, they're often "detached and analytical." In the wake of Yap's estrangement from Kris Aquino, Yap's B-Meg Derby Ace Llamados coach Ryan Gregorio told Inquirer.net about Yap's unflappability. " You cannot see any difference," Gregorio said. "He has this laid back demeanor that never changes whether he is excited or depressed. He still looks and acts the same."

 

 

 

Art by Warren Espejo and Yap's photo from Baketwallpaper.com.

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  • yana Aug 16 2010 @ 02:28pm Report Abuse
    Alalahin nating lahat that James started all these. Masaya sila until he made patol to Hope, the girl in Belo medical. Dyan nag umpisa ang lahat nilang problema bec it was never resolved!!!
  • MINJEE Aug 12 2010 @ 04:09pm Report Abuse
    its crystal clear who"s got the problem..Go james hindi kawalan si Kris sa buhay mo..Huh! bakit void ang marriage nila?Hello di ba alam ni Cory na lack of authority ang solemnizing officer?Wala kasi siyang maidadahilan..Pinapalabas nya lang na masama si James..Hay naku! pera pera lang yan.
  • ken`` Aug 11 2010 @ 03:58pm Report Abuse
    back off everyone!!!!!!its not uy problem anyway.GOODLUCK!!!!
  • lulatekki Aug 11 2010 @ 12:06pm Report Abuse
    much has been said and done about the james yap kris aquino rift. all my sympathies, however, are with james yap with nothing left for kris aquino.

    i dont have to elaborate. to james, keep your head high. you have nothing to be ashamed of. my best wishes.
  • blue Aug 10 2010 @ 04:16pm Report Abuse
    Tama yan James quiet ka na lang. It shows how good you were brought up by your parents. Hindi nagwawala, hindi mabunganga. I call that breeding. Ang iba kasi dyn, pinanganak na privilege akala nila may breeding na sila. No sireee! Sana bigyan nila ng kahihiyan ang halimbawa ng pinanggalingan nila.
  • ilongoako Aug 09 2010 @ 04:54pm Report Abuse
    That's right James, huwag mo nang piliting magkabalikan pa kayo ni Kris, dahil hindi ka para sa kanya. Magipon ka para sa sarili mo at sa maging future family mo. Don't worry you will make it.
  • aquarich Aug 08 2010 @ 05:16pm Report Abuse
    james don't worry everything will be find.gwapo ka naman e marami ka pa makikita na babae kaysa ka kris(brat).focus ka na lang sa team mo.
  • Ineng 1268 Aug 07 2010 @ 09:23pm Report Abuse
    This a very logical at the same time good psycho-social analysis of Mr. James Yap.In any relationship, if lacks understanding, respect and love, it looks like a house that is full of termites.

    What happened to them should provide lessons to people who easily fall in love. BUt Ms. Kris Aquino should be matured enough this time...dropping name of Mayor Junjun Binay, 3 weeks after the separation from Mr. Yap shows how flirty she is or I may say, a successful woman and dying to have a man, what a desperate person she is....she must learn to love her self and be cautious of she will utter. Lagi nya na lang sinisira ang magandang pangalan na iniwan ng magulang nya. PWEDE NAMANG MABUHAY NG WALANG LALAKI at MAGING MASAYA KASAMA ANG MGA ANAK NYA!!!!
  • Brad Aug 06 2010 @ 02:26pm Report Abuse
    Next time get married in the church so you'll be blessed. kasi nag tiwala ka kay Boy Abunda.
  • Brad Aug 06 2010 @ 02:22pm Report Abuse
    Believe ako sa attitude mo at tahimik ka lang sa buhay mo. Kalimutan mo na ang nangyari sa inyo ni Kris. Just take good care of your own life not to make mistake again on choosing a woman for you.
  • brad Aug 06 2010 @ 02:18pm Report Abuse
    you are not a celebrity like Kris but yo're a good basketball player and have a good future. calma ka lang at marami pang chicks jan, hindi ka naman pangit ,pogi pa.
  • marife idulsa Aug 06 2010 @ 09:42am Report Abuse
    to the couples only; try to talked your problem when your naked i mean when your after making love, you will understand each other right away. promis!
  • marife idulsa Aug 06 2010 @ 09:39am Report Abuse
    sana kris sa susunod na ma inlove ka huwag pa bigla bigla iyong tipong forever na 'to. and then pa kasal na kaagad hindi mo pa alam ang naka tago'ng ugali ng mhal mo.
  • janra Aug 03 2010 @ 04:39pm Report Abuse
    ...richt "Hope" you really pray hahahaha
  • chay Aug 03 2010 @ 08:08am Report Abuse
    sa ngayon masaya ka sa ginagawa mo kay kris but
    be afraid mabilis ang karma, HOPE you know how to
    pray and ask for your forgiveness.
  • may Aug 02 2010 @ 05:35am Report Abuse
    playboy kasi kaya ayan ang pangit ng lovelife..lol..
  • fiona18 Jul 31 2010 @ 08:24pm Report Abuse
    swerte ni jams yap sa family aquino hindi kay ms.kris...,ever!!
  • Allan K Jul 19 2010 @ 10:13pm Report Abuse
    @ vw3y, di bale na. Ang dami ngayong bagong nagsulputang basketball players. Tahimik pa ang buhay. Sa UAAP pa lang nalilito na po ako.
  • chuchuwariwa Jul 19 2010 @ 07:22pm Report Abuse
    cute but mute, aylavet.
  • chuchuwariwa Jul 19 2010 @ 07:13pm Report Abuse
    cute but mute, aylavet.
  • vw3y Jul 19 2010 @ 04:28pm Report Abuse
    @Allan K. Bawiin mo na sya kay Kris.
  • Allan K Jul 19 2010 @ 03:17pm Report Abuse
    Analyze me.
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